Paternity and Why You Need a Legitimation Lawyer
If you and your child's mother were not married to each other when the child was born, the law treats the child as born out of wedlock. Sharing a home and paying household bills do not change that default, and until you finish the process, the mother can exercise sole parental power over the child. If the two of you should ever fall out, you could lose all your right to be involved in your child's life.Signing the birth certificate does not make you the official legal father, and you don't have a right to veto a move, choose your child's school, or even have a voice in medical decisions without something more. Even a DNA result that identifies you as the biological father does not, by itself, create custody or parenting time.
How to Prove Your Status
You have two routes to prove your place as your child's father. The first is marriage to the mother after the birth, together with your recognition of the child as your own. The second route, and the one most unmarried fathers must take, is to formally petition a judge to declare the parent/child relationship legitimate.Filing Your Petition
You'll need to file your petition in the superior court of the county where the mother lives (or where another person who holds legal custody or guardianship lives if the mother doesn't have custody). If the mother or guardian lives outside Georgia or cannot be found after a diligent search, you can file in the county where you live or where the child lives. You name the mother as a party and set out the child's name, age, and sex.In the same filing you can ask for a name change, parenting time, visitation, or custody, as well. The judge is not required to grant those extra requests simply because you included them, but they're worth adding for efficiency in certain cases. Your lawyer can tell you more.
The mother must receive formal notice of the petition, and she has the right to appear and contest the case. If anyone disputes the biological connection, the court may order genetic testing of you, the mother, and the child. A finding that you are the biological father doesn't end things, though, as you need the judge to decide that it serves the child's best interests for you to be declared the legal father.
If you're a father looking to have your parental rights established, we can help. Reach out to South Atlanta Family Law Firm now to request a consultation. We're South Atlanta's most trusted family lawyers and serve clients throughout McDonough, Stockbridge, and the surrounding areas.