If your child's other parent is ignoring the terms of your child custody order, you can pursue a child custody contempt charge to enforce the schedule and protect your rights under Georgia law. You can't take the matter into your own hands by denying the other parent parenting time or breaking the rules yourself, though. Always talk to a lawyer as soon as you can.
Child Custody Contempt
Your child custody order is binding, so when the other parent treats the terms like suggestions, the court has some ways to enforce the order. The first step for you will be keeping careful records and notes because the other parent is highly likely to deny violating the order or deny that the issue is systemic. If the court thinks the other parent was
just late bringing the child home once or twice in the last six months, it is unlikely to do much: when you can prove the other parent was significantly late 25 times in the last six months, the court will take it more seriously.
Write down the date, the exact time the child was supposed to be returned or picked up, what actually occurred, any messages you exchanged with the other parent, and how the change affected your child's routine or school day. Keep screenshots, emails, and calendar notes in one place so a judge has something concrete to review.
Talk With a Lawyer
If the other parent continues to withhold time, show up late without notice, or make unilateral choices about school or medical care without getting your input, you should talk to a lawyer about the right next step. In some cases, that step could be as simple as having a lawyer write a polite note requesting the parent follow the order. Sometimes knowing you've gotten legal counsel will be enough to move the other parent. If not, your lawyer will help you:
File a Motion for Enforcement
This motion should be filed in the same court that entered the original custody order, and your motion must identify the specific provisions that were broken and attach a copy of the order itself. A willful refusal to follow a clear custody or parenting-time order gets treated as contempt here in Florida. To decide if that's happened, the court looks for three elements:
There was a valid order in place
The other parent had knowledge of that order
There was intentional noncompliance
Ways the Court Can Enforce an Order
The most common first step is for the court to order makeup parenting time for you. The court can also order the noncompliant parent to pay your attorney fees and court costs. In more serious or repeated cases, there may be a fine or even a short period of incarceration until the parent complies. If the other parent continually defies the custody order, the conduct can cross over into a criminal offense, and there may be larger fines and even imprisonment.
If the other parent's violations of your custody order are disrupting your child's life,
contact South Atlanta Family Law today for help. We serve families in Stockbridge, McDonough, and Henry County with over 50 years of combined family law experience.